Caring wife when she pregnant and giving birth

Pregnant and giving birth indeed is the nature of woman. While the husband hear his wife was pregnant he will be happy because he will have a baby. The wife was also has the same feeling, she felt that she succesed to became a mother who can have children. It means that the pregnantcy was desired because their willing.

The happines of the husband appear when the wife getting pregnant until giving birth. This happiness manifested with his caring attitude toward his wife when she started to get pregnant until giving birth.  The following is a phrase from a husband when his wife is pregnant until giving birth.

“I accompany to midwife, Sir. To be honest, sir, when my wife was pregnant, i also massage her, accompany to midwife, bought jarik, washing the clothes.  I feel pity on her when i see she works 1 x 24 hours, sir. I feel very happy when she was pregnant, i do not know why. I was happy when my wife got pregnant from the first pregnancy until the fourth. I do not want to separate when she was pregnant, sir. Usually when she giving birth, i will wait her until done. So, starting our first child Evi, Fariz, and Ian, I wait their proccess except Eva because at that time i should go.”

“In the 7 months pregnancy, my wife likes take a walk. Finally I carry her with my motorcycle. Go around until she happy. I thing my son will like take a walk too, Sir. When she was in 10 months pregnancy, she always screamed in pain. So I am pity on her, Sir. Then I massage her body all day. 2 days before giving birth, my wife already feel first step of birth. She tells that she want to giving birth. She feel that her waist is very painful. The baby is kicking in her stomatch. I am confused what should I do, i do not know. At that time i carry her to midwife, but she said that she want to there when the time is near. Around at 5 pm, my wife felt she can not hold on it anymore, Sir. So I carry her to midwife with bycicle because the distance is near, Sir. After arrive, the midwife said that the opening is on third step. I wait her util night and do not sleep, Sir. It was terrible when my wife on the 7th or 9th step, Sir. I wake  the midwife up, and at that time she check my wife. She said that the head of our baby already  go out. My wife can not hold on, sir. The midwife ask my wife to push. I help to hold my wife’s head. I raised her head slightly. I give my hand as her pillow, I ask her to keep push Sir, but the baby does not want to come out. Finally, the midwife give my wife stimulant injection. Then i see the midwife take the thin gloves and both of her hand come in to help our baby come out. She said that amniotic fluid already used up, and at Adzan Shubuh my baby’s head appear. I see all the time because only my wife , the midwife and I in that place. I trembling when the head of our baby appear and the hair is full of blood. After that I ask to my wife to push again. I see my baby come out. The baby is big. I could not bear to her beccause the blood is too much until I passed out. After that i see the midwife, her hand is came in to help our baby. I feels very gratefull because my son come savely and perfect. ”

The information above shows that the husband feels very happy and really give a deep of pouring of attention to the wife who is pregnant until giving birth.